Teddies can’t talk. But you can.
Help children grow up safely!

Children have the right to grow up safely.
For children who witness domestic violence, or who are victims of child abuse, that sense of safety is sadly not a reality. A first step toward a safer home situation is to talk about what is happening.
For a child, this can be very scary, difficult, or even impossible. Because they don’t know how, because it doesn’t feel safe. Because they feel guilty or ashamed. Or because they’re afraid of what might happen next.

Their teddy bear can’t talk. You can!
Do you recognize or suspect child abuse or domestic violence?
You can help a child by breaking the silence!

What can you do?

We should not expect children to always be able to ásk for help when they are in an unsafe situation.
Do you, as an adult, recognize the signs of child abuse? Then take action and talk about it!

Sometimes it’s hard to recognize the signs. Because child abuse is not only about bruises. Some forms of violence are less visible or harder to notice. Think of neglect, where a child doesn’t receive the care or attention they need. Or emotional abuse – such as frequent yelling, deliberately scaring, or locking a child up – which can make a child feel rejected and unsafe.
Sexual abuse can also have a huge impact, but often stays hidden for a long time because it’s so difficult to talk about.

The Signal Card (for children and young adults) can help you with your concerns and show you how to take the right steps. (signals)

As an adult, you can break the silence and help a child get out of a violent situation. Pay attention to the signs of (different forms of) child abuse, and take a child seriously when they try to tell you something difficult.

In general, the more signs you recognize, the higher the chance that child abuse may be happening.
Trust your gut feeling and take action — even if you’re unsure or only have suspicions.

Do you see, hear, or suspect child abuse? Use your voice and share your concerns.
Talk to the parents or the child you are worried about.
If you find this difficult, or if you’re unsure about the safety of the child, your own safety, or that of other family members, contact Veilig Thuis (Safe Home). Even if you only have doubts or suspicions, you can contact us for information, advice, or to make a report.
Call 0800-2000 or visit veiligthuiszl.nl

We are here to help you!